Dating again when your middle aged can be a scary experience with the scare level dependent on when you dated last. The dating world is a strange unfamiliar place and even though you want to meet someone new, you just don't know how to navigate this new area effectively. So how do you start dating again when you are middle aged?
1. What do you want? Before you start dating ask yourself what it is that you want. What kind of partner do you want? What age, height, values, faith etc should they have? If you know what you want then you are more likely to find it. If you don't know what you want then you will take anyone and therefore you will waste time and energy.
2. Co-opt family and friends. Seriously... this can work for you. I know it sounds a little timid but you want to wet your feet in the dating pool in a safe place. So casually let them know that you want to start dating again and see what happens. Don't put the pressure on them but let this be one of your potential dating avenues. And then make sure you turn out for their invites so that you can see what is available in their circle of friends. You would be surprised at the variety of people the friends of your friends or family know!
3. Go online. Again this will help you ease into the dating scene. There are dating sites catering to every taste; partners of different ages, from different parts of the world, of any age and persuasion, of a specific faith etc. Whatever it is that you are looking for you can narrow your search fairly well. This will give you an idea of what is available to you and you can try different sites to see which suit your needs best.
4. Go where they are. Since you know where the kind of partner you want can be found then go to there. If you are a little apprehensive go with a friend the first time so they can help you ease into the dating scene.
5. Open your eyes. As you go about your normal daily routine do so with your eyes 'open' in the sense of looking out for potential partners. Be open and friendly to people as you never know where a partner may be lurking just waiting for you.
Starting to date again when you are middle aged can be intimidating but if you follow these 5 helps you will find it less so. Be yourself and enjoy the experience.
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