Many younger women are dating older guys for very good reasons. Older guys have throughout the ages represented maturity, stability and experience that younger men simply cannot match. There are challenges when it comes to mixed age dating.
Younger women who want to date mature men are not just looking for a daddy figure or a sugar-daddy as some would immediately jump to. Instead these women are genuinely interested in living a better life and want the experienced hand of someone who has "been there, done that" without all the time involved in the hard lessons that life can sometimes throw at you.
Think about it. If you could gain experience second hand that drove your dreams through to completion years before you could have on your own, would you take that opportunity? You'd be foolish if you said no. And many younger women see this advantage as a real possibility in dating older guys.
Experience does not just come with common tasks or dreams either. Often older lovers prove best because they take their time to gain a level of intimacy that is rarely found in youthful quick intercourse. What is better a long session that involves hitting all the emotional highs methodically and thoroughly or a quick heated 5 minute romp? Many younger women, and most 30 somethings would agree, would choose the former rather than the latter.
What about stability? Many young men are unstable in all their ways. They cannot hold onto cash, they cannot contain their emotions in the midst of stressful environments, they cannot provide the level if luxury that many older men can afford to provide.
The vast majority of women are about safety and security when it comes to relationships. If a woman feels safe and secure then sex is much more likely to happen because a woman will not have sex with you if she feels unsafe. It is a biological response that is hardwired into their brain. And it makes a lot of sense too.
Sure there are women who are thrill seekers, but I would gamble heavily that the majority would not do it if they had everything to lose. They would only do it if they knew that there was a safety net under them. Rarely do people do dangerous things without some means of safety available. That too is biological.
In this case women who are seeking adventure can also get that adventure with older men who are in shape. Skydiving, scuba diving, sailing, balloon rides, exotic travel, safari, basically anything that will take money and knowledge are available to a younger woman who want to date older men. Young men who are not wealthy and well educated simply are out of their league when the reality of what is available to men of means and experience.
Older men who stay in shape have the best chances to make all those young women seek them out. Staying limber and in great shape will improve the chances of your success! The simple fact is that it does not matter if you are 20 or 60, if you have a ton of restrictions in your your body they are broadcast to every young woman in sight. You can have all the money in the world, dress nice and have a driver in a fancy car and while this will get you attention it will not get you the kind of woman that is naturally attracted to you for more than the safety that money brings.
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